Nadia Bolz-Weber, one of the featured writes in the Lenoir-Rhyne Visiting Writer Series, is drastically different from any pastor I’ve ever seen or listened to. I really liked how open she was about talking about her beliefs and how she perceives the word of God. One thing she talked about that really grabbed my attention was when she responded to the saying, “love the sinner, hate the sin.” She said gay people are always the objects and not the subjects. I never thought of it in this way. I admire her for accepting gays as they are instead of turning them away like some churches do. I believe we should love one another and by turning them away we aren’t loving them or helping them as we should. No one wins in that situation. By accepting gays into our churches we can help them know God instead of rejecting them and pushing them away. I agree with Bolz-Weber in that we shouldn’t think of gays as “them” but rather think of them as “us” because lets face it, we’re all in this big scary world together and we need each other. Originally my views were that marriage should be between a man and a woman. But when Bolz-Weber made this point I had to reconsider my views. We’re all different and just because someone loves a person of their own sex doesn’t mean we shouldn’t love them or help them to know God. She also mentioned that no matter what “category” we come from we all need that Christian community we can fall back on. I couldn’t agree with this more.
Another point she made that I liked was the idea of repentance. I can relate to her in that it confronts me all the time. The story that she told of her repentance of a man who always carried a concealed weapon really helped me think about what repentance actually is. Another thing she touched on was how we never end up in a place where were not in need of grace. We always need the grace of God because we sin constantly. I believe God allows us to sin so we can see just how much we need His grace. If we weren’t sinners then we wouldn’t seek the grace of God which isn’t what He wants. Overall, I really just liked the fact that Nadia Bolz-Weber is herself and doesn’t care about what others think of her. I liked how she responded when someone asked her about why she cusses even though the Bible tells us not to. She said, “People shouldn’t pretend to be someone they’re not.” I totally agree that we should be ourselves because God loves us for the true person we are. Her personality and sense of humor was awesome and her presentation really spoke to me in a way that no previous pastor has. I’m really glad I had the opportunity to go and see her and I would strongly recommend others to listen to what she has to say because she makes some valid points worth thinking about.